{"id":21841,"date":"2020-08-28T21:40:43","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T21:40:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/?p=21841"},"modified":"2020-08-29T12:45:41","modified_gmt":"2020-08-29T12:45:41","slug":"what-the-falwell-saga-tells-us-about-evangelicals-and-gender-roles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/what-the-falwell-saga-tells-us-about-evangelicals-and-gender-roles\/","title":{"rendered":"What the Falwell saga tells us about evangelicals and gender roles"},"content":{"rendered":"

Leslie Dorrough Smith<\/a>, Avila University<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

Jerry Falwell Jr. may well be wishing that a photo with his underwear showing<\/a> and his arm around the waist of a woman not his wife was the worst of his problems.<\/p>\n

That snapshot kick-started a round of speculation into the prominent evangelical leader\u2019s personal life that has cost him his job<\/a>. On Aug. 25, Falwell confirmed that he has resigned<\/a> his presidency at Liberty University.<\/p>\n

His resignation comes after allegations in multiple news outlets<\/a> that Falwell and his wife, Becki, were both engaged in a seven-year sexual relationship<\/a> with a young man named Giancarlo Granda.<\/p>\n

\u2018Not involved\u2019<\/h2>\n

Granda told Reuters that the sexual relationship involved both Falwells. He claims he had sex with Becki while Jerry Falwell watched from the corner of the room<\/a>. Jerry Falwell Jr. disputes<\/a> the allegations. In a statement to the Washington Examiner<\/a>, Falwell said: \u201cBecki had an inappropriate personal relationship with this person, something in which I was not involved.\u201d<\/p>\n

In other words, it\u2019s Becki\u2019s fault.<\/p>\n

From my vantage point as a scholar who studies religion and gender<\/a>, this comment from Falwell is revealing.<\/p>\n

How male public figures react to a sex scandal can be a very complex process. In trying to preserve what is left of their reputations, my research<\/a> indicates that they will often attempt to prove that they remain a \u201creal man\u201d \u2013 both a loving, devoted husband and a strong, virile leader. This behavior makes sense when one understands the conservative Christian gender roles that inspire them.<\/p>\n

Under conservative Christian gender norms<\/a>, men are described not only as naturally sexual, but also as divinely designed to be far more sexual than women. In fact, male sexuality is often depicted as out of control<\/a>. The point of marriage<\/a>, many evangelicals claim, is to harness that male sexuality so that it is productive rather than wild and unbounded.<\/p>\n

This view of marriage may strike many as archaic, but these ideas nevertheless permeate part of American culture \u2013 one can see it in the \u201cboys will be boys\u201d defense of bad male behavior<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Such ideas also strongly influence<\/a> how large swaths of the public tend to view sex scandals. Generally speaking, while the public holds the offending politician responsible, they are also often eager to condemn other figures who were involved for leading him astray.<\/p>\n

More specifically, my research<\/a> shows that women who are in any way associated with sex scandals are much more likely to be demonized or blamed for the sexual incident in question. Even when they are the innocent party, they can be portrayed<\/a> as power-hungry strategists who stayed in a bad marriage to elevate themselves or enablers who give all women a bad name by sticking up for another adulterer.<\/p>\n

And as scholar Amy DeRogatis<\/a> has shown, if a woman is sexual outside of marriage, she is often described by evangelicals as compromising the \u201cgift\u201d of her sexuality intended for her husband. Giving her sexuality to someone else sacrifices her future capacity for intimacy, it is argued.<\/p>\n

At the same time, some evangelicals<\/a> claim that a wide number of marital problems stem from the fact that women do not provide their husbands with enough sex.<\/p>\n

In this particular subculture, everything from men\u2019s self-esteem to their job performance can be linked to the frequency and quality of their sexual encounters. In this way of thinking, when men have problems, their wives\u2019 sexual attitudes and behaviors are often to blame.<\/p>\n

Demonization of women<\/h2>\n

Negative stereotypes often extend to all women involved in a sex scandal, no matter whether any sexual contact actually happened nor whether the act in question was consensual.<\/p>\n

For instance, Paula Jones<\/a> and Anita Hill<\/a> both claimed to have been the victims of sexual harassment, at the hands of Bill Clinton and Clarence Thomas, respectively.<\/p>\n

In the case of both women, elaborate sexual stories were concocted<\/a> by critics of all political stripes. These stories were then adopted more broadly by the general public to portray them as immoral women who must have been at least partially responsible for the sexualized encounters they experienced with two prominent figures.<\/p>\n

The case of Paula Broadwell<\/a> is also instructive. Broadwell was the lover of Gen. David Petraeus, one-time director of the CIA. While both Broadwell and Petraeus admitted to a consensual affair while married to other people, Broadwell\u2019s ethics<\/a> were called into question in a way that Petraeus did not experience.<\/p>\n

In short, there is a pattern<\/a> in American culture of finding fault with the woman in a sex scandal. Falwell\u2019s response falls in line with this pattern.<\/p>\n

But there is another aspect of Granda\u2019s allegations that deserves attention when looking at the response to the scandal. In Granda\u2019s telling \u2013 again, which has been denied by Jerry Falwell \u2013 the evangelical leader watched the sexual encounters between Granda and Becki but did not actively participate.<\/p>\n

As scholar Joshua Gamson<\/a> has shown, men whose sexual violations do not involve actual intercourse \u2013 for example sexting, as in the case with disgraced New York politician Anthony Weiner<\/a> \u2013 are often portrayed as less masculine, even silly, for failing to \u201cdo the deed.\u201d<\/p>\n

Chance of redemption?<\/h2>\n

What we are watching play out before us with the Falwells is a study of conservative gender norms.<\/p>\n

If Falwell can convincingly argue that the fault lies entirely with his wife, then this well-worn story might give him the chance to redeem himself at some point in the future. After all, in this version of events, he can maintain the appearance of a loving husband and father who has some integrity.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, being the man who \u201cwatched from the corner of the room\u201d fulfills neither the devoted family man role nor that of the virile, powerful husband. If this is the narrative that is ultimately adopted, then the path back to redemption in the eyes of the evangelical public is harder to imagine.\"The<\/p>\n

Leslie Dorrough Smith<\/a>, Associate Professor of Religious Studies and Director of the Women’s and Gender Studies Program, Avila University<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

This article is republished from The Conversation<\/a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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