{"id":29837,"date":"2022-06-08T00:15:00","date_gmt":"2022-06-08T00:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/?p=29837"},"modified":"2022-06-09T15:58:11","modified_gmt":"2022-06-09T15:58:11","slug":"how-your-race-class-and-gender-influence-your-dreams-for-the-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/how-your-race-class-and-gender-influence-your-dreams-for-the-future\/","title":{"rendered":"How your race, class and gender influence your dreams for the future"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Karen A. Cerulo<\/a>, Rutgers University<\/a><\/em> and Janet Ruane<\/a>, Montclair State University<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In Disney\u2019s \u201cPinocchio,\u201d Jiminy Cricket famously sings<\/a>, \u201cWhen you wish upon a star, makes no difference who you are. Anything your heart desires will come to you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But Jiminy Cricket got it wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re often taught that we are free to dream \u2013 to imagine our future possibilities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yet in a large research project we conducted with over 270 participants living in the U.S., we found that people\u2019s dreams are restricted in very specific ways. Our book \u201cDreams of a Lifetime: How Who We Are Shapes How We Imagine Our Future<\/a>,\u201d shows how.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Through interviews and focus groups conducted over roughly nine months, we asked people to talk about their dreams for the future. We spoke with people of different social class backgrounds; of different races and genders; and at different stages of life \u2013 newlyweds, new parents, people starting new jobs and recent immigrants. We talked to people facing serious hardships, such as poverty, homelessness, serious medical diagnoses or unemployment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We found that these social characteristics and life experiences seep into the mind\u2019s eye, quietly influencing how people dream and whether they believe their dreams can come true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Where men and women diverge<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

We already know that the rich and poor, men and women, nonwhites and whites, the old and the young have vastly different experiences<\/a> with criminal victimization, educational opportunity, health and disease, housing and wealth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But through our research we have learned that these factors also have a powerful impact on dreaming. This is important because it appears as though one\u2019s social standing can bake inequalities into the very life of the mind, creating both road maps and roadblocks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Consider the content of people\u2019s dreams. Both men and women were equally likely to dream of career accomplishments and having the opportunity to help others or donate large sums of money down the road.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But there were also notable gender differences. Women were more likely than men to identify topics associated with traditional womanhood<\/a> \u2013 family-related dreams, such as having kids, keeping peace in the family, maintaining long, successful relationships and hoping to improve their physical appearance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men, in contrast, were more likely than women to dream of adventure and fame, wealth and power \u2013 themes consistent with traditional manhood<\/a>. We also learned that women tend to be more varied, more committed and more optimistic about their dreams than men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Latino dream gap<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Most people from all of the racial groups we studied felt their dreams were realistic and achievable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we asked, \u201cIs your dream grounded in reality?\u201d all of our Asian respondents and 80% of Black respondents answered \u201cYes,\u201d with multiracial and white respondents falling in between these two groups. Over two-thirds of Asian, Black, multiracial and white respondents thought they had a 70% chance or better of accomplishing their dreams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, among Latino respondents, only about half saw their dreams as realistic. And only 41% felt there was a 70% chance or higher that their dreams would come true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As people spoke to us about their dreams, we heard four positive lessons repeatedly offered by many of our study participants: \u201copportunity is boundless,\u201d \u201cdream big,\u201d \u201cnever give up on your dreams\u201d and \u201coptimism makes anything possible.\u201d We also consistently heard two negative lessons from some participants: \u201cthe deck is stacked\u201d and \u201cthe higher people rise, the harder they fall.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In talking to us about their dreams and whether they could accomplish them, 60% of Latino respondents referenced one of these two negative cultural lessons on dreaming. In contrast, all other racial groups were more likely to offer positive lessons on dreaming. That includes 60% of Black respondents, about two-thirds of multiracial respondents and roughly 80% of Asian and white respondents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Among our participants, the practicality of dreaming and attainability of dreams seem to be powerfully connected to the cultural lessons<\/a> imparted to them \u2013 the adages, parables and wisdom learned from books, movies, songs, national symbols and traditions they\u2019d been exposed to throughout their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The American delusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When dreaming, class matters as well. The wealthier you are, the more varied your dreams, the more likely you are to engage in dreams you want to accomplish right away, the more reluctant you are to give up on a dream, and the more likely you are to see your dreams as realistic and doable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These patterns confirm what Olympic gold medalist Billy Mills so eloquently stated<\/a>: Being poor leads to \u201cthe most devastating poverty of all, a poverty of dreams.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These differences \u2013 as well as many others we found in our research \u2013 broaden the definition of inequality. They show that inequality is deep-seated and often precedes action or outcome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Life circumstances determine whether a dream seems doable or daunting. Jorm Sangsorn\/Getty Images<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

In our study, it was clear to us that some study participants never intended to actually pursue their dreams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, some respondents did intend to do so. And some were in a better position than others. The wealthy professional who wanted to start a business was already on track. Yet the retired middle-class woman who dreamed of making peace in the Middle East had no path available to her. The affluent high school senior who wanted to learn all the languages of the world was already working on mastering several foreign languages. The disadvantaged senior citizen who clung to the dream of becoming president had no traction at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

American culture encourages people to dream big. But it\u2019s important to ground those dreams with a dose of reality. When teachers say \u201cYou can be anything you want, even president of the United States\u201d \u2013 and don\u2019t explain the way in which politics, money and power are intertwined \u2013 they lay the groundwork for feelings of personal failure and resentment. And while the mantra \u201cwork hard and your dreams will come true\u201d percolates in American culture<\/a>, it papers over the fact that millions work grueling jobs<\/a> and still find themselves mired in grinding poverty<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Until the gap between the haves and the have-nots narrows, dreams will lie dormant or gradually wither \u2013 discouraging planning or shriveling into a cruel reminder of what won\u2019t come true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karen A. Cerulo<\/a>, Professor of Sociology, Rutgers University<\/a><\/em> and Janet Ruane<\/a>, Professor Emerita of Sociology, Montclair State University<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This article is republished from The Conversation<\/a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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