{"id":33150,"date":"2023-03-07T04:04:00","date_gmt":"2023-03-07T04:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/?p=33150"},"modified":"2023-03-10T17:23:20","modified_gmt":"2023-03-10T17:23:20","slug":"what-parents-and-educators-need-to-know-about-teens-pornography-and-sexting-experiences-at-school","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/what-parents-and-educators-need-to-know-about-teens-pornography-and-sexting-experiences-at-school\/","title":{"rendered":"What parents and educators need to know about teens\u2019 pornography and sexting experiences at\u00a0school"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/megan-k-maas-845520\">Megan K. Maas<\/a>, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/michigan-state-university-1349\">Michigan State University<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Three out of four teenagers have seen online pornography \u2013 often before they even became a teenager. That\u2019s according to a new report from Common Sense Media that examines the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.commonsensemedia.org\/research\/teens-and-pornography\">role pornography plays<\/a> in the lives of today\u2019s youth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some teens do more than just watch pornography. By way of \u201csexting,\u201d teenagers are also <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1016\/j.jadohealth.2021.10.026\">creating and sending their own images and videos<\/a> of themselves in the nude.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the most part, it\u2019s not the job of school staff to worry about what kids are looking at on the internet or sending over their phones. However, as an expert on human development \u2013 and as <a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com\/citations?hl=en&amp;user=TZgnU_QAAAAJ&amp;view_op=list_works&amp;sortby=pubdate\">one who studies adolescent sexuality<\/a> \u2013 I believe parents and educators should be prepared to address potential issues that might arise as a result of students\u2019 engagement with pornography and sexting. This sort of preparedness is especially pertinent today because smartphones enable kids to look at porn and to sext during school hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are five things that parents and educators should know as pornography use and sexting become more commonplace among students:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>1. Pornography is not what it used to be<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Fifty-two percent of teens have <a href=\"https:\/\/www.commonsensemedia.org\/research\/teens-and-pornography\">seen violent pornography<\/a>. This includes acts such as choking, slapping, gagging, hitting and crying. This is because the internet changed the way pornography is distributed. There used to be <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mtsu.edu\/first-amendment\/article\/1004\/obscenity-and-pornography\">more regulations<\/a> on violent content and age verification to adhere to pay-per-view standards in hotel rooms and DVD sales. Now, self-produced and distributed content reigns on \u201ctube-site\u201d platforms that function similarly to YouTube.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tube sites like PornHub allow for users to freely view and upload their own content. At its inception, many users assumed it was primarily \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/23268743.2016.1184477\">amateur content<\/a>\u201d or homemade and consensual content. However, one <a href=\"https:\/\/academic.oup.com\/bjc\/article\/61\/5\/1243\/6208896\">study<\/a> showed that 1 in 8 titles of videos on the website described sexual violence. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/technology-55333403\">An investigation<\/a> by the BBC and New York Times was prompted by victims who learned that video footage of their sexual assaults was being freely viewed on the website. The investigation uncovered millions of videos of suspected abuse and coercion, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/commentisfree\/2020\/dec\/19\/pornhub-abuse-videos-new-york-times-mastercard-visa\">causing credit card companies to cut ties<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>OnlyFans, another tube-site platform composed of user-uploaded content, also facilitates camming, or live sexual interaction, with content creators for a fee. Although there does not appear to be peer-reviewed research on adolescents\u2019 use of OnlyFans, there are <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2021\/05\/27\/children-are-selling-explicit-content-on-onlyfans-report\/\">some reports<\/a> that minors are bypassing age verification and selling their own sexually explicit images on the platform.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/512719\/original\/file-20230228-18-nu9abs.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip\" alt=\"Five teenagers sit on the floor of a high school hallway with their backs to the wall as they look at their cell phones.\"\/><figcaption>Teens can access cellphones during the school day. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gettyimages.com\/detail\/photo\/students-killing-time-in-corridor-between-classes-royalty-free-image\/1411412809?phrase=teens%20iphones%20school&amp;adppopup=true\">Rafa Fernandez Torres via Getty Images<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>2. Pornography is a source of sex education for teens<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Without widespread <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1016\/j.jadohealth.2020.07.036\">comprehensive sex education in the U.S.<\/a>, young adults have identified pornography as a primary <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/s10508-020-01877-7\">source of sex education<\/a>. However, the pornography that teens have the easiest access to \u2013 tube-site pornography \u2013 <a href=\"https:\/\/academic.oup.com\/bjc\/article\/61\/5\/1243\/6208896\">tends to portray<\/a> more sexual aggression, degradation of women and people of color and lack of sexual consent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/10410236.2021.1991641\">choking or strangulation during sex has been increasing in porn<\/a>. This is concerning to violence researchers, neurologists and <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/0092623X.2021.1985025\">mental health professionals<\/a> because recent reports indicate that <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/s10508-022-02347-y\">1 in 3 women were choked<\/a> during their last sexual experience. Although the majority of women reported feelings of euphoria, <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/s10508-022-02347-y\">strangulation during sex<\/a> carries the <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1089\/neu.2022.0146\">same risk for brain damage due<\/a> to loss of oxygen as being strangled in other contexts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s also concerning is that male adolescents exposed to violent pornography are <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/10810730.2021.1887980\">more likely<\/a> to be higher in sexual aggression and are <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/s10508-019-1435-4\">two to three times more likely<\/a> to have pressured a partner to engage in sexual activity the partner did not want to engage in than male adolescents who view less violent pornography or less pornography overall. For teen girls, their violent pornography exposure is associated with nonviolent risk behaviors, such as <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1177\/105984051456\">substance use, buying or selling sex, and sexual victimization<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>3. Although it is not wise, sexting is not always harmful<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Although many adults cringe when they learn about teens sharing nudes with each other \u2013 <a href=\"https:\/\/cyberbullying.org\/sexting-laws\">many states<\/a> still define sexting among teens as the distribution of child sexual abuse material \u2013 consensual sexting can be a normal and healthy part of adolescent sexuality. Some teens are <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/s12119-022-09952-y\">motivated to use sexting<\/a> to explore their sexuality by expressing their feelings and desires while practicing trust and vulnerability with intimate images. However, if sexting is coercive, or the sexts are shared outside of the couple without permission, it can be considered by law enforcement and violence researchers a form of sexual harassment or <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.4324\/9781351135153\">image-based sexual abuse<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/512716\/original\/file-20230228-691-q9katl.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip\" alt=\"A girl with glasses is underneath a bedcover as the green glare of an iPhone illuminates her surprised and bespectacled face.\"\/><figcaption>Three out of four teens have viewed online pornography. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gettyimages.com\/detail\/photo\/cute-girl-watching-video-on-phone-with-shocked-royalty-free-image\/1390528082?phrase=teens%20iphones&amp;adppopup=true\">Alihan Usullu via Getty Images<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s important to note that, as with many issues related to teenage development, <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/978-3-319-71882-8_4\">potential harms or benefits of sexting<\/a> are dependent on factors such as maturity, the nature of the relationship between the individuals involved and gender. For example, <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/s13178-022-00775-y\">one study<\/a> found that boys were more likely than girls to disseminate sexts to peers without the consent of those in the picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>4. Sending other people\u2019s sexual content is often harmful and illegal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Once an image or video is shared, it can be difficult to control how it is used or distributed, which can lead to feelings of shame, guilt and embarrassment for the original sender. The sending of others\u2019 sexual content can take many forms, such as sharing a nude image via small groups or posting an image more publicly to a website. Such images and videos can be shared widely or even secretly among private social media accounts and group email lists known as \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/jocks-and-frat-boys-more-likely-than-other-men-in-college-to-visit-slut-pages-and-post-nude-images-without-consent-156365\">slut pages<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Slut pages have the ability to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wbur.org\/npr\/467959873\/teen-girls-and-social-media-a-story-of-secret-lives-and-misogyny\">shape a school\u2019s culture on sexual violence<\/a>, as they are intended to make nonconsensual pornography seem amusing. This can encourage peers and even adults to minimize the emotional trauma a person may experience when they learn that their images are posted on a slut page.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>5. Schools can be liable for online sexual misconduct under Title IX<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www2.ed.gov\/about\/offices\/list\/ocr\/docs\/title-ix-rights-201104.html\">Title IX<\/a>, a federal law that prohibits discrimination on the basis of sex in education programs and activities that receive federal funding, can potentially be used to address nonconsensual pornography in high schools. When school administrators know or reasonably should know about nonconsensual pornography, Title IX requires them to take prompt and effective steps to end the harassment, prevent its recurrence and address its effects. This can include conducting investigations, taking disciplinary action against the individuals involved and providing support and resources for affected students.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.knowyourix.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Know-Your-IX-2021-Report-Final-Copy.pdf\">study<\/a> conducted by Advocates for Youth showed that school staff tended to minimize sexual harassment as a typical right of passage. Without staff training that targets this bias, the victims of nonconsensual pornography can feel uncomfortable going to staff <a href=\"https:\/\/www.knowyourix.org\/\">because victim blaming can be so prevalent<\/a>. For example, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1080\/15546128.2022.2076757\">our experiences training<\/a> school staff, a common response to the distribution of a student\u2019s nude images is often, \u201cWhy did she send him that picture in the first place?\u201d which is understandable. Educators could also consider asking, \u201cWhy did he share that picture with the whole school?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Is there anything that can be done?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In our study, we found that public school administrators, staff and educators <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/15546128.2022.2076757\">overwhelmingly agree<\/a> that education for school staff, parents and students needs to happen to improve the social lives of today\u2019s digital natives. We found that when school staff received education that included facts about how teens engage with pornography and sexting and some examples of how to respond when problems occur, they were more confident and less embarrassed discussing these topics if they were to arise at school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We also think if schools\u2019 sexual misconduct policies address digital behavior, that could also play a major role in determining how schools both prevent and respond to nonconsensual sexting and pornography among students. We are currently researching which schools do this well to provide an example that other schools can follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/megan-k-maas-845520\">Megan K. Maas<\/a>, Assistant Professor of Human Development and Family Studies, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/michigan-state-university-1349\">Michigan State University<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This article is republished from <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\">The Conversation<\/a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/what-parents-and-educators-need-to-know-about-teens-pornography-and-sexting-experiences-at-school-198576\">original article<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Megan K. Maas, Michigan State University Three out of four teenagers have seen online pornography \u2013 often before they even became a teenager. That\u2019s according to a new report from Common Sense Media that examines the role pornography plays in the lives of today\u2019s youth. Some teens do more than just watch pornography. 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