{"id":33926,"date":"2023-05-23T01:55:00","date_gmt":"2023-05-23T01:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/?p=33926"},"modified":"2023-07-02T07:47:43","modified_gmt":"2023-07-02T07:47:43","slug":"travelers-will-refuse-an-upgrade-to-sit-near-a-loved-one-new-research-into-when-people-want-to-share-experiences","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/travelers-will-refuse-an-upgrade-to-sit-near-a-loved-one-new-research-into-when-people-want-to-share-experiences\/","title":{"rendered":"Travelers will refuse an upgrade to sit near a loved one \u2013 new research into when people want to share\u00a0experiences"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/ximena-garcia-rada-1238853\">Ximena Garcia-Rada<\/a>, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/texas-aandm-university-1672\">Texas A&amp;M University<\/a><\/em>; <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/michael-norton-145591\">Michael Norton<\/a>, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/harvard-university-1306\">Harvard University<\/a><\/em>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/rebecca-k-ratner-1439964\">Rebecca K. Ratner<\/a>, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/university-of-maryland-1347\">University of Maryland<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/us\/topics\/research-brief-83231\">Research Brief<\/a> is a short take about interesting academic work.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>The big idea<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>People will often sacrifice a better experience and opt for one that\u2019s less enjoyable if it means they can do it alongside a loved one \u2013 whether that\u2019s a romantic partner, close friend or relative. That\u2019s the main finding of <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1002\/jcpy.1352\">our research<\/a> published in the Journal of Consumer Psychology in April 2023.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, when taking a flight, two friends might decide to sit in adjacent seats in coach rather than accept a free upgrade to nonadjacent seats in first class. Failing to choose togetherness can have consequences, as in the \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=d2JKXbVGq7A\">Seinfeld\u201d episode<\/a> in which Elaine suffers the indignities of economy class, leading to rage against Jerry after he chooses to accept an upgrade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We conducted five studies in a variety of settings and featuring different social bonds, including friendships and romantic relationships. In one study, just over half of people chose two adjacent seats far from the stage over two nonadjacent seats closer to the stage when imagining they were attending a Cirque du Soleil performance with a close friend, compared with only about one-third who chose the adjacent seats when imagining attending with an acquaintance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In another study, we asked students whether they wanted to eat one chocolate with another person \u2013 either a new friend or a stranger \u2013 or two chocolates alone. Half the people chose the shared experience \u2013 but only if the other person was a friend. Fewer people \u2013 38% \u2013 opted for the shared experience if the other person was a stranger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Why it matters<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>One reason people prioritize physical proximity with close partners is because they want to create shared memories. Importantly, people believe that physical distance can disrupt the creation of shared memories, and so they forgo enjoyable experiences apart from their loved one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This also matters for companies seeking to improve customer experience, such as an airline offering free upgrades or shorter wait times. Our findings suggest that, for example, consumers traveling with a companion might not take advantage of services like TSA PreCheck, an airline VIP lounge or a free upgrade if it is available only for themselves. It also helps explain why consumers do not like when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2023\/03\/06\/travel\/airlines-family-seating-dashboard.html\">airlines split up families<\/a> in their seat assignments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, we also tested a few initiatives marketers can use to encourage people to choose a higher-quality experience that requires them to be apart from their companion. In another experiment, we described a train ride as either a fun part of an excursion or as a practical way to reach a final destination. More participants accepted a free upgrade \u2013 even though it required sitting apart from their romantic partner \u2013 when they perceived the train ride as utilitarian. That\u2019s because they cared less about creating shared memories during the experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>What still isn\u2019t known<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We still don\u2019t know how this preference affects relationship quality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, when can time apart from your partner actually strengthen the relationship? And how should couples split their time between lower-quality activities done together and higher-quality activities done alone? One option for separate activities, for example, might be when one partner\u2019s desired activity does not interest the other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, given that people believe physical proximity is a prerequisite for creating shared memories, how can partners who live in different places also cultivate shared memories? This question is especially important in light of how COVID-19 has enabled more people to work and study remotely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/ximena-garcia-rada-1238853\">Ximena Garcia-Rada<\/a>, Assistant Professor of Marketing, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/texas-aandm-university-1672\">Texas A&amp;M University<\/a><\/em>; <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/michael-norton-145591\">Michael Norton<\/a>, Professor of Business Administration, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/harvard-university-1306\">Harvard University<\/a><\/em>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/rebecca-k-ratner-1439964\">Rebecca K. Ratner<\/a>, Professor of Marketing, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/university-of-maryland-1347\">University of Maryland<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This article is republished from <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\">The Conversation<\/a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/travelers-will-refuse-an-upgrade-to-sit-near-a-loved-one-new-research-into-when-people-want-to-share-experiences-205363\">original article<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ximena Garcia-Rada, Texas A&amp;M University; Michael Norton, Harvard University, and Rebecca K. Ratner, University of Maryland The Research Brief is a short take about interesting academic work. 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