{"id":35823,"date":"2023-12-13T02:18:00","date_gmt":"2023-12-13T02:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/?p=35823"},"modified":"2023-12-17T13:48:38","modified_gmt":"2023-12-17T13:48:38","slug":"drinking-during-holidays-and-special-occasions-could-affect-how-you-parent-your-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/drinking-during-holidays-and-special-occasions-could-affect-how-you-parent-your-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"Drinking during holidays and special occasions could affect how you parent your\u00a0kids"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/bridget-freisthler-1483075\">Bridget Freisthler<\/a>, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/the-ohio-state-university-759\">The Ohio State University<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How much alcohol do you typically drink in a week? A month? A year? Did your answer take into account how much you drink on New Year\u2019s Eve? On Christmas? During the Super Bowl or World Cup?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When researchers compare how much alcohol is sold to how much people say they drink, alcohol consumption is underestimated by anywhere from <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1111\/j.1360-0443.2010.03007.x\">30% in the U.S.<\/a> to <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1111\/j.1360-0443.2008.02219.x\">80% in Australia<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Special occasions such as holidays, weddings or major sporting events make up much of that difference. How much a person <a href=\"https:\/\/alcohol.org\/guides\/an-occasion-to-drink\/\">drinks at a special event<\/a> can vary quite a bit, <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1186\/s12916-015-0337-0\">adding an extra four drinks per week for men and three drinks per week for women<\/a>, and people usually don\u2019t include these splurges in their tallies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com\/citations?user=AzyWlbsAAAAJ&amp;hl=en&amp;oi=ao\">My research<\/a> team studies alcohol use and its effects on parenting, with an ultimate goal to identify strategies that support <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/ncbddd\/childdevelopment\/positiveparenting\/index.html\">positive parenting<\/a>. Particularly in the festive holiday season \u2013 filled with gatherings where drinking is commonplace \u2013 understanding how special-occasion drinking affects how parents treat their children could help people change their routines in ways that make these occasions more enjoyable for everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Alcohol\u2019s effects on social problems<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not news that alcohol is related to many social problems: <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.3389\/fpsyg.2021.699726\">violence<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhtsa.gov\/risky-driving\/drunk-driving\">traffic crashes<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC6707113\/\">child abuse and neglect<\/a>. Alcohol can enable bad behavior during special occasions. <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1093\/alcalc\/agv037\">Incidents of drunken driving are<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.moneygeek.com\/insurance\/auto\/resources\/most-dangerous-dui-days\/\">highest after New Year\u2019s Eve<\/a>, for instance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alcohol use by men on days of major sporting events is <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1093\/qje\/qjr001\">related to more violence toward their families<\/a>. However, because this relationship has been primarily studied among men, we don\u2019t know if it is the same for women. <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.35946\/arcr.v40.2.01\">Women\u2019s drinking has increased<\/a> over the past several decades, making this an important topic to understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Drinking while parenting can cause lax supervision of children or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nationalcac.org\/for-parents\/\">more harsh parenting practices<\/a>. In our recent study, my colleagues and I wanted to see if a parent\u2019s alcohol use on two special occasions was related to the use of aggressive discipline \u2013 whether physical punishment like spanking, or psychological aggression like yelling and name-calling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/u.osu.edu\/familylife\/\">As part of a larger study<\/a>, we focused on two special occasions where drinking might differ from a typical day: Super Bowl Sunday and Valentine\u2019s Day. <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1111\/acer.15206\">What we found surprised us<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Drinking more on special days<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In February 2021, we asked 307 parents to take three brief daily surveys for 14 days. We pushed a text message to parents\u2019 phones at 10 a.m., 3 p.m. and 9 p.m. that asked questions about whether they had used specific discipline strategies since the last survey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the seventh and 14th day, the survey included questions about whether parents drank alcohol during the past week. If they did, we asked them to tell us on which days, and during what time frames. We matched the days and times they drank with parenting behaviors they\u2019d previously reported. Importantly, 93% of parents in our study were mothers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-datawrapper wp-block-embed-datawrapper\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" title=\"What days were parents more likely to drink?\" src=\"https:\/\/datawrapper.dwcdn.net\/x82mE\/3\/#?secret=Tp3jeHXu9i\" data-secret=\"Tp3jeHXu9i\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"261\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A higher percentage of parents drank at some point on Valentine\u2019s Day (23.7%) and Super Bowl Sunday (16.9%) than on non-special occasion days during the study (14.7%).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Drinking alcohol during the Super Bowl was related to a 2.5 times higher odds of using aggressive discipline. However, drinking on Valentine\u2019s Day was related to lower odds of using aggressive discipline.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So special-event drinking <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1111\/acer.15206\">did affect parenting behavior<\/a> \u2013 but in different ways depending on the event.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When drinking while watching a fairly violent sport, such as football, parents could be \u201ccopycatting\u201d aggressive behavior they see on the screen. Researchers have suggested this link <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1016\/j.socscimed.2020.113457\">for men\u2019s behavior toward their families<\/a>. With <a href=\"https:\/\/martecgroup.com\/men-women-and-the-super-bowl-the-science-marketers-should-note\/\">women now making up 46% of the Super Bowl audience<\/a>, my colleagues and I suggest there might be a similar relationship for them. When children appear disruptive or are playing in the same room, dads and moms may be quicker to yell instead of redirecting the behavior without resorting to aggression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Valentine\u2019s Day is different. Although more parents reported drinking on Valentine\u2019s Day than on Super Bowl Sunday, we didn\u2019t see the same increase in aggressive parenting. Valentine\u2019s Day celebrates romance and love. Its norms are markedly different from the Super Bowl, leading to a more relaxed parenting style. Drinking may be more likely to occur at a restaurant with a nice dinner that may or may not include children. For couples who leave their children at home, the holiday provides respite from parenting and focuses attention on other activities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/564906\/original\/file-20231211-25-qnkqa3.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=1000&amp;fit=clip\"><img src=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/564906\/original\/file-20231211-25-qnkqa3.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip\" alt=\"family, some with beers, watching a soccer match on TV, boy holds ball\"\/><\/a><figcaption>Incorporate care for the kids into plans for the big game. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gettyimages.com\/detail\/photo\/argentinian-football-fans-watching-football-match-royalty-free-image\/930095812\">Frederic Cirou\/PhotoAlto Agency RF Collections via Getty Images<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>Celebrating while still parenting with care<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Our results suggest parents may want to remember that drinking at special events like holiday parties or family gatherings may not only be different than their regular pattern of alcohol consumption, but also may influence how they interact with their children both during the event and <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1016\/j.socscimed.2020.113457\">even the next day<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What can moms and dads do to reduce harsh parenting during special occasions when they choose to drink?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Parents can plan ahead and choose a \u201cdesignated parent\u201d who does not drink and takes the lead on supervising the children. This could be one or multiple people.<\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/nonalcoholic-beer-new-techniques-craft-flavorful-brews-without-the-buzz-218687\">Drinking nonalcoholic<\/a> mocktails or light beers to reduce the alcohol content can bring drinking more in line with a regular day.<\/li><li>Hiring a babysitter during the event, planning a playdate or bringing alternative activities to keep children engaged might lessen everyone\u2019s stress.<\/li><li>For an event like the Super Bowl, having activities supervised in another room, such as watching a child-friendly movie, might reduce problems.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Even special occasions as simple as a summer barbecue with friends or family could change how you parent, especially for those who drink infrequently. With so many adults around, it\u2019s easy to assume another adult is watching the kids when no one actually is. Putting a plan in place around special events where parents will be drinking may reduce possible harm to your children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/bridget-freisthler-1483075\">Bridget Freisthler<\/a>, Professor of Social Work, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/the-ohio-state-university-759\">The Ohio State University<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This article is republished from <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\">The Conversation<\/a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/drinking-during-holidays-and-special-occasions-could-affect-how-you-parent-your-kids-218778\">original article<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bridget Freisthler, The Ohio State University How much alcohol do you typically drink in a week? A month? A year? Did your answer take into account how much you drink on New Year\u2019s Eve? On Christmas? During the Super Bowl or World Cup? 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