{"id":40991,"date":"2025-11-04T07:15:00","date_gmt":"2025-11-04T15:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/?p=40991"},"modified":"2025-11-04T07:07:27","modified_gmt":"2025-11-04T15:07:27","slug":"singles-day-is-a-150b-holiday-in-china-heres-why-i-think-11-11-will-catch-on-in-the-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/singles-day-is-a-150b-holiday-in-china-heres-why-i-think-11-11-will-catch-on-in-the-us\/","title":{"rendered":"Singles\u2019 Day is a $150B holiday in China. Here\u2019s why I think \u201811\/11\u2019 will catch on in the&nbsp;US"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/peter-mcgraw-1518014\">Peter McGraw<\/a>, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/university-of-colorado-boulder-733\">University of Colorado Boulder<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On Nov. 11 each year, a curious holiday takes over China. What began among Nanjing University students in the 1990s as a tongue-in-cheek counter to Valentine\u2019s Day has exploded into the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.statista.com\/chart\/11810\/singles-day-vs-cyber-monday-and-black-friday\/\">world\u2019s largest shopping event<\/a>: Singles\u2019 Day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The date, 11\/11, was chosen because the four ones resemble \u201cbare sticks,\u201d Chinese slang for singles. Today, the holiday generates more than US$150 billion in annual sales, exceeding those on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.statista.com\/chart\/11810\/singles-day-vs-cyber-monday-and-black-friday\/\">Black Friday and Amazon Prime Day combined<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a bachelor, behavioral economist and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.colorado.edu\/business\/peter-mcgraw\">business school professor<\/a>, I study how single living is transforming consumer behavior and market dynamics. My work has convinced me that Singles\u2019 Day, or something like it, could resonate far beyond Asia. Here\u2019s why.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>A profitable solo boom, starting in Asia<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The unmarried will <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2021\/10\/20\/opinion\/marriage-decline-america.html\">soon make up the majority<\/a> in many countries, and this shift is already reshaping culture and commerce across Asia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not a coincidence that Singles\u2019 Day emerged in China. The country\u2019s one-child policy, in effect from 1980 to 2015, led many families to <a href=\"https:\/\/china.unfpa.org\/sites\/default\/files\/pub-pdf\/gender_preference_for_children_and_srb_-final.pdf\">prefer sons<\/a> \u2013 creating a gender imbalance that left millions of men without potential female partners. At the same time, rising education and career opportunities have given many women the independence <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/how-chinas-leftover-women-are-using-their-financial-power-to-fight-the-stigma-of-being-single-171698\">to forgo traditional marriage altogether<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can see a similar pattern across East Asia. In Japan, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nippon.com\/en\/japan-data\/h02059\/\">single-person households<\/a> now outnumber those of married couples with children. In <a href=\"https:\/\/www.koreatimes.co.kr\/southkorea\/society\/20241209\/proportion-of-single-person-households-reaches-record-355-in-2023\">South Korea<\/a>, one-person households reached nearly 36% in 2023, the highest share on record. Together, these shifts are fueling what Japanese call \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/takeonjapan.com\/articles\/japans-super-solo-culture\">ohitorisama<\/a>,\u201d or the \u201cparty of one,\u201d and what Koreans describe as \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/2022\/feb\/05\/happy-alone-the-young-south-koreans-embracing-single-life\">honjok<\/a>,\u201d or \u201calone tribe,\u201d cultures: movements that celebrate independence and self-reliance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Businesses across Asia have seized the opportunity, catering to independent lifestyles with offerings such as <a href=\"https:\/\/qz.com\/quartzy\/1150670\/the-wildly-popular-japanese-art-of-solo-karaoke\">single-seat karaoke booths<\/a> and movie theaters designed for <a href=\"https:\/\/wanderlog.com\/place\/details\/1979460\/megabox-coex\">solo patrons<\/a>. Singles\u2019 Day is a prime example of companies capitalizing on this shift.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Each year, retailers across Asia embrace the occasion with themed promotions, presales and limited-edition product launches. Companies such as <a href=\"https:\/\/techhq.com\/2023\/11\/why-did-huawei-and-xiaomi-outshine-apple-in-chinas-singles-day-sales\/\">Xiaomi<\/a> release exclusive smartphones, while <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nike.com\/launch\/t\/air-jordan-13-low-singles-day\">Nike<\/a> introduces new sneakers every Singles\u2019 Day. Even airlines have joined in: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marketing-interactive.com\/jetstar-asia-feeds-travellers-appetite-to-fly-solo-this-singles-day\">Singapore\u2019s Jetstar Asia<\/a> once offered 111,111 discounted seats, positioning solo travel as an empowering experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Singles\u2019 Day channels massive spending power \u2013 reframing singlehood as something to celebrate rather than lament \u2013 and shows how a retail event can feed a cultural shift. In the U.S. and across much of the rest of the world, meanwhile, businesses remain wed to an outdated assumption: that marriage is everyone\u2019s destiny. It\u2019s not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Single in America<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Right now, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.axios.com\/2025\/02\/14\/single-people-us-areas-map\">half of American adults are unmarried<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2020\/08\/PSDT_08.20.20.dating-relationships.full_.report.pdf\">half of those singles<\/a> aren\u2019t seeking a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 1960, only <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/social-trends\/2014\/09\/24\/chapter-2-trends-in-the-share-of-never-married-americans-and-a-look-forward\/\">10% of American adults<\/a> would remain single for life. Today, some forecasts show that <a href=\"https:\/\/time.com\/3422624\/report-millennials-marriage\/\">25% of millennials<\/a>, who are now between 29 and 44, and <a href=\"https:\/\/ifstudies.org\/blog\/1-in-3-a-record-share-of-young-adults-will-never-marry\">33% of Gen Z<\/a> who are 13 to 28, will never marry. While the average age of first marriage was just <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bgsu.edu\/content\/dam\/BGSU\/college-of-arts-and-sciences\/NCFMR\/documents\/FP\/hemez-distribution-age-first-marriage-1960-2018-fp-20-09.pdf\">21 in 1960<\/a>, today it has <a href=\"https:\/\/www.census.gov\/newsroom\/press-releases\/2022\/americas-families-and-living-arrangements.html\">risen to 29<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Through my Solo project \u2013 which includes a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Solo-Building-Remarkable-Life-Your\/dp\/1635768861\/\">book<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/petermcgraw.org\/podcasts\/solo-a-podcast-for-happy-single-people\/\">podcast<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/peter_mcgraw_stop_telling_single_people_to_get_married\">TED talk<\/a> \u2013 I explore how widely single people\u2019s goals vary, both in relationships and beyond.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By understanding singles\u2019 diverse goals and lifestyles, American businesses can gain a competitive edge with targeted communication, innovative products and tailored services. Singles aren\u2019t a monolith. My research identifies four main types:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li><strong>\u201cSomedays\u201d<\/strong> aspire to find \u201cthe one\u201d and settle down. They are the group businesses usually market to.<\/li><li><strong>\u201cJust Mays\u201d<\/strong> share that goal but aren\u2019t waiting around for it \u2013 they\u2019re investing in homes, traveling solo and pursuing independent ambitions in the meantime.<\/li><li><strong>\u201cNew Ways\u201d<\/strong> reject the idea that traditional marriage is the default, experimenting with models such as \u201cliving apart together,\u201d polyamory or platonic partnerships.<\/li><li><strong>\u201cNo Ways\u201d<\/strong> are opting out of the dating market entirely. Most do so not out of bitterness but because they have more important goals \u2013 or because they simply enjoy single life.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>This diversity matters. \u201cSomedays\u201d may respond to dating apps and matchmaking services. \u201cJust Mays\u201d and \u201cNew Ways\u201d gravitate toward experiences, hobbies and personal growth. \u201cNo Ways\u201d are alienated by romance-centric messaging and instead embrace autonomy and community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To explore how Singles\u2019 Day might be received in North America, I <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/singles-fueling-worlds-biggest-day-ecommerce-peter-mcgraw\/\">surveyed<\/a> nearly 400 U.S. singles ages 24 to 59. The most common ways they said they\u2019d celebrate were by finding a date, treating themselves to a gift or practicing self-care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>American companies and the solo economy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In many industries, a 2% demographic shift ought to trigger an all-hands marketing meeting. So how can the decades-long rise of single living still go largely overlooked by most companies in the U.S.?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To be fair, there have been glimmers of recognition in recent years. For example, <a href=\"https:\/\/shortyawards.com\/14th\/no-family-no-drama\">in 2021, Visible Wireless repositioned its \u201cfamily plans<\/a>\u201d to \u201cfriends and family plans without the family drama.\u201d In 2024, Norwegian Cruise Line <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncl.com\/travel-blog\/why-cruise-norwegian-solo\">introduced studio cabins for solo travelers<\/a>, tackling the long-standing and dreaded \u201csingle supplement.\u201d Similarly, IKEA, after offering a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/ikeas-missed-opportunity-rethinking-valentines-day-peter-mcgraw-lyxef\/\">Valentine\u2019s dinner only for couples<\/a> in 2024, pivoted this year to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/ikeahfx\/p\/DFLJGxsoKyv\/\">an inclusive promotion<\/a>: \u201cBring a loved one, a good friend, or the whole family.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But those are the exceptions rather than the rule. What should U.S. brands do to appeal to this growing market? Here\u2019s my advice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li><strong>Rethink assumptions about dating and belonging.<\/strong> Not all singles seek romance. Create meaningful nonromantic experiences that reflect solo lifestyles \u2013 singles-themed events, community nights or \u201cbring-a-friend (or don\u2019t)\u201d offers.<\/li><li><strong>Segment by goals, not just age.<\/strong> A 25-year-old solo traveler and a 60-year-old empty-nester may both respond to a message about independence.<\/li><li><strong>Tailor offerings for people who live \u2013 and do things \u2013 alone.<\/strong> The \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.wsj.com\/articles\/more-americans-are-living-solo-and-companies-want-their-business-11559497606\">rightsizing<\/a>\u201d trend is already underway: smaller grocery packs, single-serve meal kits, compact appliances and studio-friendly furniture. Travel and entertainment can follow suit with solo pricing, seating and perks that don\u2019t penalize independence.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>I teach my business students to ask, \u201cIs there a market?\u201d and \u201cCan we serve it profitably?\u201d The answers here are obvious. Singles are everywhere. They\u2019re dining alone, traveling solo, buying homes and spending billions. And yet they remain largely overlooked in a world built for two.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The rise of Singles\u2019 Day in Asia shows what happens when businesses take singles seriously: consumer innovation, cultural relevance and record-breaking profits. I expect the U.S. will follow \u2013 whether reluctantly or enthusiastically. The only question in my mind is: When?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/peter-mcgraw-1518014\">Peter McGraw<\/a>, Professor of Marketing and Psychology, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/university-of-colorado-boulder-733\">University of Colorado Boulder<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This article is republished from <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\">The Conversation<\/a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/singles-day-is-a-150b-holiday-in-china-heres-why-i-think-11-11-will-catch-on-in-the-us-266566\">original article<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Peter McGraw, University of Colorado Boulder On Nov. 11 each year, a curious holiday takes over China. What began among Nanjing University students in the 1990s as a tongue-in-cheek counter to Valentine\u2019s Day has exploded into the world\u2019s largest shopping event: Singles\u2019 Day. The date, 11\/11, was chosen because the four ones resemble \u201cbare sticks,\u201d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":40992,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[826,5,8025,10,25,36,38,9],"tags":[5429,16637,832,145,178,2318,224,176,885,891,886,860,184,314,9458,5431,2300],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40991"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40991"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40991\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":40993,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40991\/revisions\/40993"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40992"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40991"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40991"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifeandnews.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40991"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}